Long time no see… TMI!!!
It’s been a while… but this week, I found the question particularly interesting…
1. Do you believe in marriage?
Not at all… I think marriage is more a formality than anything else… Something to set rules that shouldn’t be needed when you ‘feel’ as it should in a relationship. Getting married isn’t making the relationship better, or over lasting… It’s somehow providing financial security for some, giving endless responsibilities to both and over all, it’s a drag once it’s over…
2. What is marriage to you?
As wrote above… nothing more than a formality that give each partner a set of rules that are unneeded when the feelings are were they should.
3. If you are married, why did you do it? If you are not, why have you not married?
I’ve been married 15 years. Why did I get married first? It seemed the normal path to a long term relationship, at that time, and an easy way out from my parent’s place…
4. Do you believe in divorce?
It’s the counterpart to marriage… something unneeded that is now a necessity once the marriage is over…
5. If you are divorced, why did you do it? If you have not, are there certain circumstances under which you would agree to a divorce?
After 15 years of separation, I finally did the divorce paper work last February only. Never felt the need to do so before, as there was nothing big to fight about over my dead body… Now there is… so I see it as a necessity to protect my s.o. from the ex…
Bonus (as in optional): [ed note:I am not trying to spark a get political debate, I am much to superficial for that]Do you believe that same sex marriages are a threat to traditional marriages?
If they need it and want to share the shit, welcome in guys… But really… I just don’t see why they want it so much… but it’s not a threat to nothing but themselves…
Happy Tuesday all!!!
Cleaning day!!
I’m not a very good housekeeper… I do the cleaning when I feel like, no matter if it’s needed or not… Doh!!!! I know it is ALWAYS needed… I just find that boring like the clouds that are covering the sky today…
So… Yes… today is a cleaning the place day… and I don’t feel like… but I did already quite a lot…
Downstairs bathroom, done…
Dining room and kitchen floor, done…
But… I’m still fighting (very badly) with the laundry… I have already the last laundry pile of clothes waiting to be hang or fold… and I’m already washing some more to add to them…Pfff…
I just feel like doing nothing but reading and resting… ;-(( Pfff…
So, why am I not doing so???
Because the place HAVE to be clean…, tomorrow is the princess birthday… and visitors are expected…
9 year’s old… that’s will be her age tomorrow… and as I don’t remember much from my 9 years old, I find this age quite strange…
We took her to the park last Monday, with her best friend… Both girls spend all the afternoon walking in circles in the park hand in hand!!!! And, at, at least, 10 feet away from us… looking for boys their age!!!! Independence!!!
We took them to the public pool yesterday, those two same… and they played almost all the time in the baby pool!!!!!!
What a mix of behaviors… and I’m not sure if a few more years will make this better!!
